How to SUCCEED?
Firstly, what is success? How can success be defined?
Everyone has a way of working and everyone has a different plan for their lives, so we cannot define success, as success is something confined to the one thinking about it. The general thought of success is having a good job or having a job that pays really well. But is that all that there is to success?
Success is reaching the goals that you set for your selves, and this could be anything. It could be something small or it could be something big, it is completely dependent on the vision you have for yourself. In your journey of life, you have so many different checkpoints to measure success, it could be related to your professional life or even your personal life. People who often strive for success are prone to relating success with peace, being content, being healthy, being a better version of you.
When success can be anything, and there is no right answer for it there are although some things you can do to obtain your goals in life. There is no one way route to it but there are multiples factors that play a role to make one’s life successful. No one can guarantee success because you are your own judge, you know what you can and cannot achieve and so goes the saying “No one knows you better than yourself alone”.
Nurturing a Growth Mindset
How can I have a growth mindset?
Trust yourself and trust your efforts.
Keep growing and learning never cease to learn.
Failures are stepping stones to success they are not road blocks or a dead end.
Enhance your Emotional Intelligence
How to sharpen my emotional intelligence:
Think of yourself and put yourself in situations, manage your thoughts and understand your feelings in certain circumstances; start to relate with your situations.
Have a method of outlet, understand how to manage and conduct yourself.
Listen to people around you, understand how you can improve and become a better person.
Prepare mentally and be mentally tough
How can I be mentally tough?
Trust and believe in what you do.
Never give up, always think it is possible to accomplish what you set forth to do.
Prepare and set goals for yourself
Relate to the things you do and have people to support and guide you.
Increase Your Willpower
How do I increase willpower?
Stay away from things that distract you away from your goals. Things that will lead to procrastination.
Practice on things that will allow you to concentrate, stay connected to things that will push you to do better. (for ex: music makes you focus while working)
Focus on what motivate you
How to keep me motivated?
Keep pushing yourself to do better.
Stay on your feet always look for ways to improve and stick to things that keep you on top of your game.
Stay strong and take control of your situations.
Never back down and always be ready for a challenge.
Remember one thing, that life isn't a race. You have to do what you need to do and what you feel is right, but always be in control of the things that you set forth to do. Do not let your decisions in the hands of others or others to wrestle you over.