Personal Life Update

I just got married and I couldn’t be happier with this amazing woman.

She is my pillar of strength and she has surely been the answer to my prayers and my life’s biggest blessing. ❤️

Above all of this through this wedding time and a time where a new journey starts I wanted to reflect on a few learnings.

To everyone out there, walking into a new phase in your life I’d like to give you a few pointers:

✅ I think it is vital to refreshen up and replenish your energy, so take time off and relax and rejuvenate before going into time as such. It helps to have a clear mind and a less stressful start where you’re having to wonder around about a million things.

✅ There will always be things that don’t go according to plan so be ready and prepared, not worried and anxious but always understand that even if things don’t go as exactly planned the end goal is what really matters.

✅ It’s hard to get everything done so ask for help and get as much as help you can get from friends, family and people around you.

✅ Focus more on the things you can control and the things that mean most to your values and what you stand for, all of the rest additional sprinkles on top should not be things you need to worry about.

✅ When you have life events such as a marriage or start of a new journey, focus on enjoying the moment and also having fun in the process. Do not get carried away through the pressure of the whole life event that you’re unable to enjoy the present moment.

✅ Focus on the positives, and focus on what the positives are even though it is really hard in that moment even if things are not going as planned.

✅ Never dwell too much on any negatives because there will always be things out of the blue that you’re not comfortable with.

✅ Be comfortable with the uncomfortable and move on from things that do not bring you any happiness because your happiness through these times is more valuable than anything else.

✅ Spend time with loved ones that truly matter and don’t focus on trying to do anything that drains your energy.

All of the above might seem like its basic things but trust me these are the things that make your special occasions special.

This whole attire, was not something I ever thought I would wear, but to be honest I loved every bit of this uncomfortable situation because it brought me so much joy and it was an occasion and a time full of fun, love and enjoyment.

Thank you for everyone who was directly and indirectly part of this huge moment in my life.

Peace y’all!

J